Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle

Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle 👻

Join John and Susan for a real-talk episode about one of the most frustrating experiences in the lifestyle: getting ghosted! From no-shows at planned meetups to communication that suddenly goes silent, J and S break down why this behavior is so damaging to the community—and share their own ghost stories that'll make you shake your head.

In This Episode:

👻 The Ghosting Epidemic: John and Susan's personal experiences with being ghosted—not just radio silence during chats, but full-on no-shows after making concrete plans to meet. Hear about the couple who left them waiting at a bar in the city and the recent hot date that never materialized despite confirmed arrangements.

🤬 Why It's So Damn Rude: Whether it's the lifestyle or a job interview, basic courtesy matters. J and S explain why ghosting is worse than just changing your mind—it's about respect, communication, and treating people like actual human beings.

🔍 What's Really Going On?: Are they picture hunters? Is one partner communicating without the other's knowledge? J and S explore the possible reasons people ghost—but emphasize that NONE of them excuse failing to send a simple "sorry, can't make it" message.

💡 Pro Tip - Day Use Hotels: Quick recommendation for dayuse.com if you're looking for affordable hotel blocks (4-5 hours) for daytime meetups. Perfect for those afternoon adventures without breaking the bank!

Sexy Storytime - Sadie Hawkins Success:

After a week's delay (they were too busy enjoying their afterglow!), John and Susan dish on their incredibly successful Sadie Hawkins party at Wicked Fun Club! This ladies-choice event featured games, prizes, and some seriously hot encounters:

🔥 Sue's Adventures: From oral play with gorgeous single guy R (who definitely knew how to do the "hello"!) and friend A to a private room session with R that left everyone satisfied

🔥 John's Surprise: Despite not planning to play, John got seduced by a friend who knew exactly how to push his buttons (literally!). Missionary, doggy style, and a five-way that had the whole club buzzing

🎮 The Perfect Mix: Veterans and brand-new couples mingling naturally, confident single men who approached correctly, and enough chemistry to light up the whole club

Upcoming Events:

📅 December 13 - Secret Santa/Sexy Santa Christmas Party at Wicked Fun Club

📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA (2-day event with clothing-optional pool!)

📅 January 3 - Swinger Match Game Night at Wicked Fun Club (Newlywed Game, Match Game, Win Lose or Draw - plus J and S's birthday celebration!)

Coming Soon: Sci-Fi Night, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day, MILF Madness (May), possible Friday night watch parties, and planning for Naughty in New Orleans!

Check out all the details at wickedfunclub.com - one-month memberships and single-day passes available!

The Bottom Line: DON'T GHOST! Even a polite excuse is better than leaving people hanging. Be honest, be respectful, or at the very least—make up a decent lie. The lifestyle is built on communication and respect, so let's all do better.

Got questions, ghost stories, or topic ideas? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.com

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