June 22, 2026

The First Time...And Every Time After

The First Time...And Every Time After

A Lifestyle Podcast

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First Time Jitters - A Guide for Lifestyle Newcomers 🎉





Join John and Susan as they tackle one of the most-asked questions in the lifestyle: How do you succeed at your first event? Whether it's a club, house party, hotel takeover, or special event, J and S share practical advice on research, expectations, communication, and putting yourself out there.


In This Episode:

Why "first time" experiences can happen even after years in the lifestyle

How to do your homework before attending an event

The importance of no expectations (and why it matters)

Tips for positioning yourself and reading the room

Best practices for approaching other couples

Why communication before, during, and after is essential

Handling rejection gracefully

Finding your play style and how it evolves

Why you owe nobody anything




Sexy Storytime:

John and Susan recount a recent getaway with longtime friends S&T at an Airbnb—complete with sexy outfits, a daisy chain, and a fun evening that included dining out and reconnecting.




Upcoming Events:

📅 July 18 - Shipwrecked Party at Wicked Fun Club - Get tickets at wickedfunclub.com


📅 June 26-28 - Silver and Spicy Prom (again!) at Scranton, PA



Got questions about your first lifestyle event? Email us at mysecretseduction@gmail.com or leave a voicemail at mysecretseduction.com!




Connect with us:

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