Welcoming the Newbies - How to Make Them Feel at Home

Join John and Susan as they flip the script: instead of advice FOR newbies, they're offering advice FOR experienced lifestyle folks on how to actually welcome newcomers into the community. From icebreaker games to respect and communication, J and S tackle why the lifestyle can feel clicky—and how you can be the one who changes that.

Game Review - Kinky Land:

Discovered at a sex shop in Montreal, this board game holds up to 8 players (4 couples) and features 72 squares with various challenges, truth-or-dare cards, never-have-I-ever prompts, and drinking spots. Unlike typical group sex games that force play-or-take-a-shot, Kinky Land is more about icebreakers and fun without pressure. Think sexy snakes and ladders with actual personality. J and S tested it with a group of friends and had a blast—check it out if you're looking for something beyond the usual card games!

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Sexy Storytime:

A "tale of two Saints"—the first night packed with people and a stunning Russian woman who knew exactly what she wanted, and the second night with only one other couple (who definitely weren't interested in chatting). Both had their charm in different ways.

In This Episode:

Why experienced couples can be intimidating (and how to fix it)

The difference between "hello" and expectations

What newbies REALLY see vs. what they imagine

The importance of mentorship and answering questions

How to respect different play styles (they're not all the same!)

Two completely different nights at Saints and Sinners Philadelphia

A memorable encounter with an unexpected connection

Teaser: A new show concept for Halloween (Swinger horror stories!)

Sponsors:

Swing.com

Black Thai Honey

Special Request:

Got a swinger horror story for Halloween? Email mysecretseduction@gmail.com or leave a voicemail at mysecretseduction.com! Could be awkward, could be terrifying, could be hilarious—we want to hear it!

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